Cool mate. I'd try PMing or emailing Marcus to ask him about cooking your tri release. He should have the answer for you. As it's a blend I suppose there's a chance that some of the different powders might react differently to heating.
As far as your diet goes, it's good that you're looking at your diet rather than a miracle supp. The answer is yes, you should be eating as though you already weigh 95kg to get to 95kg.
To give you an idea of a diet plan have a look at page 2 of my training log (
http://forum.foodforgrowth.com.au/index.php?topic=665.15). I've got an outline of the diet I'm following at the moment which has me sitting at around 85kg and gaining (I have a very fast metabolism). What works for me may not work for you but it will give you an idea of how much you should be eating. Xplosive also posted a great clean diet up somewhere too, but I'm not sure where (try searching for it).